whatever that crossmember is that supports the transmission, it suffered a massive hit. its bent upwards and i think its having a negative effect on my tranny cause when i shift into 5th gear my fingers are almost touching my stereo. will post pics soon

 

You have 2 alternatives. Build yourself one out of heavy gauge steel (which I was fortunate to have my friend do for me) or buy a new one but not the stock one go to a guy that sells offroad parts there allot stronger than the crap the dealer wants to sell u as original equipment. You want to try an 4by4 club in ur area and see if you can find someone thats made one can help u.